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30 de novembro

Let's try this again

Hmm... started this and tried adding a pic, wouldn't ya know...msn is pmsing and made me start over, hmmppfftt!
 
Dang, now just where was I going? Its always harder to do this a second time.... so I guess its just going to be highlights, sheesh.
 
Turkey day was fun...and filling! Two meals, the first at my daughter's and the second at home with my son and his girlfriend... with the kids all grown up, you have to be a bit flexable so all the families involved get their chance at the holiday. I guess we do see each other enough that the pressure isn't there to try and accomidate everyone.... although I did cheat on my meal, lol... premade turkey mignon, quick, easy and delicious!! After dinner and a couple games of Scrabble, it was time to put up a few Christmas lights...in the dark!! Umm, yeah... why do it the easy way when its light out? Then again.... they are just simple lights as well.
 
DSCF3558DSCF3561 This morning, after a late night, I got a call from my daughter. Seems I was being requested to go see Santa with the grandbaby...his first time, lol. Coffee, visiting with folks...and before I know it, its closing in on noon, so its off to the local American Legion for a bite to eat and a little more visiting.... one of my bowling buddies bartends there. The burgers hit the spot.....
 
24 de novembro

Wow, has it really been a week?

Funny how at times, time just slips away from a person.... I've been here and there, lost, confused and yet strong and knowledgable. Its somewhat strange at times, that you can feel all sorts of different things, lol...like the other night while staying at the hotel after the 'Soul Aslyum' concert, one of my girlfriends and I had just gotten out of the hot tub and were heading back to our room when we rounded the corner right into a couple other guests!! While I usually can have a comeback or something slip off my tongue, I felt like a teenager as the guys greeted us, lol. Maybe it was the swimsuit, wet and lowcut that all of a sudden I felt naked.... ok, so maybe it was the lack of sleep this week that was playing with my head.
Mondays are always a busy day at work...and just recovering from the weekend makes one sleepy. Tuesday was dollar tacos at one of the local bars, so a few of us gathered for beer and cheap eats, Wednesday was bowling... and then a couple nights out at hotels. Ok, maybe I should stay home this week, lol. I've got things to do..... like Thanksgiving dinner! But I honestly will not be up at 4am to do the black friday shopping hysterial.... I'm not a big crowd person. Hopefully Thursday morning, since I'm doing dinner for the kids, I'll do a more serious blog or wrtiting project. I've read the book, 'The Shack' recommended by Carolyn and have found it quite refreshing and eye opening.
Do I dare say I'm getting too dang old... tonight, going to bed and setting the tv to sleep mode is souding like a good idea. Good grief... where are the days when I worked two jobs, cleaned the house and feed the kids? Up at 5am and in bed at 11pm.... I think they're catching up with me!!!!
17 de novembro

And the light went off....

Ya know, I clicked journal for the category, then thought...it could be a story too!! Oh well, that part doesn't really matter....
 
This past weekend, I decided to once again, recharge my mechanical brain and figure out just how to putter around on my car.... simple stuff, ya know. I noticed Wednesday after bowling, that I had a dead headlight... just on the low beam, but something I need to take care of. So Friday after work, I stopped at the local car parts shop... picked up a low beam headlight and a set of windshield wiper blades. I've changed rear lights before, so this shouldn't be that much of a challenge...and the wipers, well, sheesh.... same thing, been there done that before. Well, of course, nothing is simple and there's always that Newton guy who has that law about things going wrong.... 
Opened the hood... stared.... closed the hood, everything looked complicated!!! Oh hell anyways, grab the manual and take a look.... hmm, wipers got done after a twist, turn and huh, dang... one done, second definately went alot easier!!! Now back to the headlight.... flip, flip..page WXX...wow, written instructions along with pictures!!! Should be a piece of cake.... lmao, omg...what a project it turned out to be!!
First off, the dead light is on the driver's side, the pictures are for the passenger side...not so big of a deal, just flip the image in my mind. No problem, unscrew this nut, remove this holder, pull the light housing away from the car...change lightbulb. I got all the way to change bulb before I ran into a problem, the old bulb came out but the new one wouldn't fit back in. This shouldn't really be this hard, dang it... put the old back in, yep it fits... try the new one again, nope won't slide into place. Add to this in the back of my mind was the comment the shop guy told me as I was leaving the store...'remember, don't touch the glass part of the bulb'.
Ok, I'm not doing something right, so I put the whole contraption back together and think... I guess I'm gonna stop at my car guy's shop and have him do it. I'll feel foolish as hell cause I know it'll be one, two, three ...bad bing, he's done and I'm just going to be thinking, 'why in the heck didn't it work for me'!!
So I go to work Thursday morning and eventually I start telling my silly bulb story to the folks I work with. Well, of course by the end of it, I'm in the parking lot with a couple of the guy looking at my car and discussing the whole problem. Its then that I figure it out!!!
Those dang illustrations which I was following showed me how to change the high-beam light... so, ummm, yeah...Embarrassed, the square peg wasn't going to fit in the round hole! In the meantime, my lights have decided to get me back for my little misunderstanding... the low beams are working but my high-beams have decided to not click on. Guess one of these nights I'll try it one more time...and if all else fails, its time to see my shop guy for a little car tlc.
Ugghh.... no wonder my head hurts, lol.
13 de novembro

Settling in and working on projects

Well, you know winter is setting in when evenings are spent inside working on projects of various sorts. Now we did get some snow earlier this week but its still too warm for anything to really accumulate...  But with the evenings growing darker earlier, its time for me to sit down at the computer and work on a few 'writings'. Last spring I took a writing class, it gave me some ideas, things to think about but then summer came!! Life got busy...things to do, people to enjoy... I got sidetracked. Besides, its just another hobby with which I can spend as much or little time that I want. Like many of my hobbies, I do need to be in the right mood to feel the urge to work on whatever it is....crafts, writings, house/home projects.
Tonight, I picked up my 'journal jar'...a gift from the instructor our last night of class. I haven't even opened it all summer but tonight, oh yes, tonight... the seal was broken. Now the whole idea of the jar is to pick one of the slips of paper out and journal on the subject, of course...I'm not a true rule follower, lol. I read through all of the slips and picked my topic!!! Here is the link to the journal jar, should you decide to try it...or for the creative gift giver... a present!!
 
 
"Describe a perfect autumn day. What kind of activities would you do on that day?"
 
In the fall of the year, a truely perfect day would be beautifully sunny. A bright blue sky, scattered with a few fluffy clouds and a gentle breeze to push them lazily across the horizon. The leaves would be brilliant in their prewinter dress of rusts, yellows and oranges. The morning nip in the air, soon changes to a comfortable coolness as the sun raises higher toward the midday skies.
 
On a day like this, morning 'chores' would be taken care of and then it would be a day of enjoying the lazy hazy dog days of summer. A wonderful book and time to read, sipping ice tea while relaxing in a hammock...maybe even a quick 'cat nap' in the afternoon sun. Years ago as a child, it would be a time of raking leaves and jumping into them, just to rack them all over again! After an afternoon of leaf play, it would be time to start a fire, burning the leaves and watching the flames...visiting with family and enjoying our time together. There is just something about the smell of the leaves burning that awakens the senses...maybe even a little bit of nostagla, the realization that summer is over and that winter will be setting in.
08 de novembro

Tequlia and Salt

TEQUILA AND SALT

This should probably be taped
to your bathroom mirror
where one could read it every day.


You may not realize it,
but it's 100% true.




1.

There are at least two people in this world
that you would die for.




2.

At least 15 people in this world
love you in some way.




3.

The only reason anyone would ever hate you
is because they want to
be just like you.




4.

A smi le from you can bring happiness to anyone,
even if they don't
like you.




5.

Every night,
SOMEONE thinks about you
before they go to sleep.




6. You mean the world to someone.




7. You are special and unique.




8.. Someone that you don't even know exists loves you.




9.

When you make the biggest mistake ever,
something good comes from it.




10.

When you think the world has
turned its back on you, take another look.




11. Always remember the compliments you received..
Forget about the rude remarks.






So.....
If you are a loving friend,
send this to everyone,
including the one that sent it to you.


If you get it back, then they really do love you.




And always remember.....
When life hands you lemons,
Ask for Gin and Ginger beer and call me over!!


Good friends are like stars.....
You don't always see them,
But you know they are always there.




'Whenever God Closes One Door He Always Opens Another, Even Though
Sometimes It's Hell in the Hallway.

'



I would rather have one rose and a kind word
from a friend while I'm here
than a whole truck load when I'm gone.




Forward to all your friends.


And don't tell me you're too busy for this..
Don't you know the phrase
'stop and smell the flowers'?
See how many 'bouquets' you end up with!


Happiness keeps You Sweet,
Trials keep You Strong,
Sorrows keep You Human,
Failures keeps You Humble,
Success keeps You Glowing,
But Only
God keeps You Going

Does 'One size fit all' apply to everything?

It's funny how sometimes an off the cuff comment can really make you stop and think, re-evaluate things. A friend of mine said something that at first I blew off but then let it get to me. We all have our own experiences in life so its not fair to judge others by the life we lead. Now she is married and pretty much very high matinance, I'm totally the opposite.... single, not really sure if I want to get involved at the moment but not exactly hiding from the opportunity of meeting new folks. Sad thing is, I'm questioning her motives of friendship.... I have all sorts of different people as friends, which I'm sure she does too. But she is judging my friendships on how she defines them.
At the moment I'm somewhat frustrated and I've taken a step back from her and her self-created drama. The only thing is, by doing this I've also taken a few steps back from others as well. I've watched her do this to a few other people.... yelling at them for not being like what she wanted them to be, not having the same sense of humor and sarcasism she does. For me, its a time like this that makes me wonder.... why do you want to change your friends? I mean, you like them for who they are, not for what you want them to be. At this point, I'm thinking she isn't the kind of person I need to be around.... now this may sound selfish, but you either like me or you don't. I'm not changing who I am just to fit a 'mold' of what someone else thinks I should be.
I've really resisted writing this blog, yet I need to just to get a bit of finality and balance back into my life.
 
 
On a happier note... we have avoided some of the snow that has hit the area lately but the cold winds have blown my way this weekend. I think winter maybe showing its face slowly. This weekend in Minnesota is the deer hunting opener which also means the beginning of a few craft fair weekends. So today was a fun little trip to a neighboring town for a little browsing amidst vendors... chit-chatting with a few fellow shoppers and lunch with a couple girlfriends.
04 de novembro

Video sharing tonight

Just a quick link to share on this historical night....enjoy!  http://oldbluewebdesigns.com/mybeautifulamerica.htm
 
 
01 de novembro

Tricks, treats and the morning after!

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Well, the great night of tricks and treats is over and it was a memorable one in the neighborhood this year! Beautiful weather and an early Friday night made way for alot of gobblins of all ages! For the first time ever....I ran out of treats for the little ones!! Six bags of candy.... and I had to go inside and turn out the light. My brothers brought the nephews over, they started the family night and my daughter and her 'brood' helped finish it! In between time there were plenty more...and my son and his girlfriend were on hand to visit and pass out the treats. Sitting outside on the patio, it was fun to watch families wandering down the street together... many times either pushing a stroller or pulling a wagon.  The fun little toddlers were probably the cutest!! The little lion and tiger were interesting, tiger being the younger of the two, managed a pout when L didn't put the treat in the bag fast enough, lol. Then there was little Pooh-bear... he couldn't figure out that he didn't have to ring the doorbell to get his treat. After stopping at the table he climbed the steps to the front door to collect again!

The night had its own interesting times as well.... one family had stopped and were making their way back down the street, stopped again...for a little emergency. One of the boys had broken his glow-stick and managed to get the burning liquid in his eyes! So mom, laid him down on the lawn while I went inside for some water and paper towels. Hopefully she managed to rinse that out but maybe they did end up making a trip to the emergency room before heading home. Another set of pranksters pulled up to the empty house across the street and made their way inside. The house is on the market, but the foursome made their way upstairs with the help of their cell phones without ever turning on a light. My son called the cops and just after they left the house, they were pulled over down the street.... seems one of the gals was the relators daughter. Hmmm.... wonder if mom knows the trouble she was up to! I'm not sure if I had a house on the market that I'd like pranking teens having access to my property.

Another interesting part of the night came later in the evening as we were all visiting.... I live just down the street from the cemetary and everyone knows just how 'haunting' that can be!! Well, little by little it seemed that some tweeners had congragated amidst the headstones. I guess I hadn't paid all that much attention to how many until my son-in-law decided that enough disrespect for the dead had gone on and went into the cemetary through the back way. He jumped out of his truck, flashlight in hand and hollared at the kids to make their way elsewhere. As we watched from my patio, a swarm of 40+ kids ran, screaming down the road! Another neighbor just across the street had already had enough and the cops had been called. Not long after the screaming swarm had left, they quietly walked back, followed by a squad car.... to pick up the mess of smashed pumpkins and litter they had been tossing around amid the headstones.

Never a dull moment in this neighborhood!!! lol... and now a couple pics of my favorite little ones!!

my fisherman nephewmy son and his girlfamily pic timelittle monkey girlshining knight